Tuesday, August 21, 2012

How to Love Someone with good?

Love Is Blind indeed happen. There are some people who are blinded by their feelings and thoughts of love. They love their partner excessively. And we know that all that much usually unfavorable impact. Naturally, if that love blindly will get disappointment.
A woman complained, "What is missing from me? Everything I give but why is he always let me down? ". Furthermore, a man said, "I loved him as deep sea, I gave everything I had for him. But why she could not love me like I love her? "And there are many more complaints about her love affair many people.
Love it takes maturity.
Perhaps all know there is a term Love Monkey. Love Monkey is a term used to mention the love affair between teenagers (teens). The teenager is considered not understand about love. Interest in each other to make their love affair. Sure it's a natural thing and a natural fit with the development of psychological and biological needs. When a pair of love-stricken youth, of their love developed in accordance with the feelings alone. Make the woman, the feeling of being number one. Logic dikebelakangkan. That love affair that would lead where no thought at all. While for the man who usually have love just to prove that he is a man who can menahlukan women. This is due to the nature of the genes he has a tendency to dominate the opposite sex. The men tend to ask the woman to do anything she wanted. And most likely the woman is not able to fulfill their romance ended brief. And finally, the love they disappear over time.
So to love someone we need maturity in attitude. Maturity is an attitude that combines logic, ethics and feelings. Understanding and mutual respect for one another attitude budge usually grow in adults (usually the age to 20 years). So it might be better for us to have a relationship after the age of 20 years.
Love requires sincerity.
In addition to a love for the opposite sex is also no love for the family. Love of a mother to her child generally is love / love sincere iklas no tendency expecting a reply at all from her. Usually because of the sincere love of a mother and would do anything for the good of their children without any strings attached. The mother will always forgive any fault her. That is true love because it is based flavor iklas.
When we have a sense iklas when normally we love our partners will be able to succumb to minor differences and little debate. Compassion, we beat our keegoan. It was formed from the existing iklas flavor. And if the relationship continues long but finally parted, usually no resentment that occurred after separation. Keiklasan will cause keiklasan love to take it off.
So finally we can conclude that in order to love someone with wisdom, beyond an interest us in the person's physical and personality, we also need to feel loved and unwilling to take the relationship accompany maturity. Maturity means that there is always relational and logical considerations should have a target destination in the relationship.


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